Sometimes that can feel like the best solution.
It’s been driving you mad or making you unhappy for such a long time.
What’s the point in sticking with it?
Where’s the value to me in hanging around for more of the same?
What is it that Einstein said? The definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
It can feel like that sometimes if you’re in an unsatisfying relationship or job. Or maybe your circle of friends is feeling more like work than fun.
So what can you do about it?
Should you stay and work through it or should you leave?
This video may shed some light on it for you.
Do get in touch for a chat if I can be of any help.
Look forward to speaking soon!
Hello I’m Jessica Hylands Confidence Coach.
Do you find that you’re not achieving what you want to in life?
Maybe it’s your job.
You think; I didn’t like my job ten years ago and I’m still in it.
Or your relationship: I wasn’t satisfied or fulfilled with my relationship ten years ago and I’m still in it.
You may think: Perhaps I should just leave. I’ve got to be brave. I’ve got to make that move.
But you might move to another job or relationship and be very disappointed to find that you feel exactly the same.
This is because it may not be the job or the relationship that you don’t like but the way that people are treating you.
If that is the case. There are some exceptions to this, but if that’s the case, you’re inviting people to treat you in a certain way. And if you’re inviting people to treat you in a negative way, you’re just going to carry that with you.
You’re going to ask the new people to do the same.
If that is the case for you, the issue is very likely to be within yourself.
It’s how you feel about yourself that determines what you do and say, and how you invite people to treat you.
If you think you’re not worthy and a waste of space for example, people will pick up on that, and that’s the way they’ll treat you.
If you think that you’re absolutely fine as you are - some people like me, some people don’t - but I’m OK as I am, you come across as confident and people will treat you with the respect that they feel that ‘position’ deserves.
So it’s all about how you feel about yourself.
So before you make any rash decisions about changing job, changing relationship, moving house, moving social clubs, think about the root of it. What is it really that you’re unhappy with. And if it does turn out to be yourself, do some work on yourself to make sure that you do feel happy within, because that is what will determine your happiness. It’s not going to be external things that you do. They might be fun, they might not be, something to enjoy or otherwise, but your happiness is determined by how you feel about yourself.
So do look deep rather than make any rash decisions about making any changes in your life to determine exactly what the problem is before you do that.
I do wish you all the best with that.
As ever if I can be of any help, please do get in touch. We can have a chat about how we can move you through this.
Thanks for listening!
Hope to speak to you soon,
Bye for now!
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by Jessica Hylands Confidence Coach